Question of the Week!

When do we allow our children to make their own choices & or decisions, what age, etc? I would love to hear your comments because my wonderful husband & I had a dicussion about this and of course we had different opinions (go figure). He felt that MAJOR hair cutting falls under the Life changing circumstances and should fall under the parent decision making, and of course I disagreed. This to me is not considered a life changing issue, what do you think?